How To Get Him To Do What You Want

I must say in order to get him to do what you want you have to know what you want. If you don’t know and are willing to find out then you are well on your way. But how do you express it to him? As for anything there are rules. 1st rule BE KIND. 2nd rule BE HONEST. No man wants to be ridiculed or criticized, but they do love to be praised and lead in the right direction. Face it no woman wants to keep doing what she doesn’t like, so please be honest with yourself and him as well.
1. Guide his hands/mouth where you want to be touched/kissed. Once he touches /kisses you right let out a soft moan or even whisper a few words of encouragement/ delight.
2. It’s ok to give him directions. We all know men don’t like to ask for directions, so help him out. Remember he is interested in yours because he doesn’t have one of his own. Tell him to the left/ right, faster/slower or even harder/ softer. Yes, you can even say “not so hard baby”. You can make anything sound sexy during sex. Bring some of mother’s advice to the bedroom. “It’s not what you say baby, but how you say it.” Read the mood of your situation. If it’s soft and romantic, yelling “HARDER BABY HARDER” might not work to well. But maybe a whisper will.
3. Play games. Put suggestions of what you would like to do or what you would like for him to do in your clothes, lingerie, hair, behind your ears (just be creative). Let him search until he finds one he wants to try or maybe just try them all.

*No matter how many women he has had, he’s not an expert on pleasing you until you show him how.



Lyrical Seductress